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6.8 The One Where We Talk about Fat

In this episode, we talk to our fat friend (and yours!), formerly anonymous writer Aubrey Gordon AKA @yrfatfriend about her new book What We Don't Talk about When We Talk about Fat and the pod on everyone's lips, Maintenance Phase!

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The Meat of It: 

Aubrey Gordon / Anonymity Ep / COVID fat jokes Ep / Maintenance Phase / What We Don’t Talk about When We Talk about Fat / our ep on Fearing the Black Body / Everything you know about obesity is wrong / Fen Phen ep / With Friends like These / Washington Post Q&A / Aubrey's Fat Reading List / Our ep on Roxane Gay’s Hunger / our ep with Sofie Hagen / our ep with Lindo Bacon / Ijeoma Oluo / Body Sovereignty / Caleb Luna / Shilo George / Self Mag piece 

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4.14 Our Fat Friend, @yrfatfriend

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This week we’ll discuss being anonymous online, fat visibility, and using your privilege for good. Sophie talks to anonymous fat activist and writer, Your Fat Friend!

 

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In This Episode: 

 

We’re Obsessed: Chloe x Halle who knew / Chernobyl / Chernobyl Pod / Alison Roman / Ricotta dumpling salad / Nothing Fancy (Alison Roman’s cookbook) / Salt Fat Acid Heat / #SorryLindsey / Love Island /Supergoop! tinted moisturizer / GLDN (code SAF for $5 off) 

 

The Meat of It: yrfatfriend / Medium article / The Fat Friend episode / A Draft Agenda for Fat Justice /Disability Justice episode / Kivan Bay / The Way We Talk about Our Bodies is Deeply Flawed / More Your Fat Friend essays / The Gifts of Fatness 



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1. Minisode #1: Thanksgiving Survival Guide

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In this week’s minisode, we’ll discuss strategies to deal with family fat-shamers, a Stars Hollow Thanksgiving, and the one good man (not Charlie Brown).  

Also covered: Patti Pies, our favorite sides, and what we are thankful for.  

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Mentioned in this episode:

I Got Beans, Greens, Potatoes, Tomatoes… Turkey Lurkey Time. The Ultimate Patti Pie Review. Buzzfeed Article on Navigating Awkward Holiday Conversations.  

Buffy - “Pangs." Boy Meets World - “Turkey Day.” Scream Queens - “Thanksgiving.” Gilmore Girls - “Deep Fried Korean Thanksgiving.” Being Better To Your Fat Friend This Thanksgiving. Meet Maria!  

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1.11 The Fat Friend

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This week, we discuss fat friendships, fancy smells, and Riverdale. Also covered: Terrace House, The Duff, and Lil Romeo.

 

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Mentioned in this episode:

 

I’m Obsessed: On Terrace House. Team Demetria. The Dry Down. Joanna + Glossier. Target Candle Dupe. The Body Love Society Speaker Series

 

The Meat Of It: The Duff. Marie Southard Ospina on Fat Friendships. YrFatFriend on Twitter. Yr Fat Friend - "If You're Right About Your Fat Friend's Health." Yr Fat Friend - “What I Need When We Talk About Bodies.” YrFatFriend on Patreon.

 

Others we recommend by @yrfatfriend: The Heartbreak of 'You're Not Fat.' Your Fat Friend Doesn't Feel Fat. Your Fat Friend Is Going it Alone. When Your Fat Friend Dates.

 

Ask A Fattie: Riverdale. Body posi/feminist comic recommendations: Quince. Bitch Planet. The Essential Dykes to Watch Out For. Nimona. Girls with Slingshots. Questionable Content. Bella Hadid.

 

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