5.3 Getting Off

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In this episode, we’re talking about sex and intimacy in quarantine with Sonalee Rashatwar AKA the Fat Sex Therapist!

Bookclub: Fearing the Black Body / Black Owned Bookstores 

The Meat of It: Sonalee Rashatwar / @thefatsextherapist / Radical Therapy Center / Sonalee article on Bitch / Clementine Morrigan / What is Shadow Work and where to start / Sexual Shadow Integration Work / Gaby Herstik / Grounding Techniques for Self-Soothing / Self-Hold exercise / Big Big Love / Dana Hamilton / Teen Vogue — Health benefits of masturbation / Crash Pad / kink.com / b-vibe  

Resources on Israel, Palestine, and Zionism:  USCPR / The Palestinian Youth Movement / Jewish Voice for Peace / BDS / Amnesty International / Within Our Lifetime / The Guardian / Palestinian’s Podcast / The Queer Arabs Podcast

CALL TO ACTION: Support Black Sex Workers

From The Black Sex Worker Collective, “Demand economic justice for all our workers and artists who are being left out of financial support conversations by local government. You can do that by helping The Black Sex Worker Collective raise money and awareness to directly support impacted communities, which is all too often Black and POC members of society.” 

Read more about the bswc’s work here / Buy Tickets to “Who’s Allowed to Make Money - Workers in Solidarity.” / Donate to the event's GoFundMe / Follow, share, and uplift the bswc on social media! 


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