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Time Capsule Ep #1: A Little Fat Music

Today’s episode is a release from our pre-COVID time capsule. Sophie recorded this interview back in February 2020 with Ellen Kempner of the band Palehound! They talk about Palehound’s latest album, body neutrality, and being a Big Girl in Rock. 

The Meat of It:

Palehound / Black Friday (album) / “Worthy” Music Video / body neutrality / BoPo Politics with Melissa Gibson / @ashleighchubbybunny / The Fat Friend Ep / Tamara Malas / pic of Ellen we talk about / junior high LA / junior high on patreon / Adult Mom / Sheer Mag / Jay Som 

Our guest: Ellen Kempner / Insta / Twitter / Spotify / Fader Interview / Tidal Interview on Lizzo, "health," and tattoos

Music clips: Killer / Worthy / The City / Bullshit / Autumn Sweater / Stick N Poke / Black Friday  

SAF x Palehound Playlist! 

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5.4 Centering Black Women

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In this episode, we’re talking with Sophie Williams, AKA OfficialMillennialBlack on Insta, about her upcoming book, not centering whiteness, and the love triangle between fatphobia, racism, and misogyny.

Bookclub: Fearing the Black Body / Black Owned Bookstores 

Here are some more questions and thoughts to guide your reading and reflection of the first two chapters of Sabrina String's Fearing the Black Body:

  • First of all, I wanted to give you some thoughts on how to approach a more academic book, if you're new to or unfamiliar with this kind of reading! 1. If you run across words you don't know, feel free to look them up! Approaching a more academic text like this is a balance of looking things up and using context clues to noodle out what's going on and accepting you might not understand every sentence exactly. 2. Make sure you read the intro! It's a little dense, but it's a great layout of the overall argument the book will make and the plan for that argument, which helps me situate my reading and helps with those context clues. 3. Look at endnotes! They can be both fun, interesting, and helpful in exploring a text like this. Note 20, for example, gives you a handy list of other books about fatness to read. Endnotes can also give you more rich detail that the author wanted to share but doesn't quite fit in the sequential steps of the argument being made. 4. Don't hesitate to make notes of things, concepts, sentences you don't understand or don't remember and might be interested in further reading or googling of! I spent a little time looking at some of the artists mentioned in Chapter 1 on wikipedia and google images, for example. Okay, now questions - send us your answers to these, if you'd like to be featured!

  • 1. Have you ever noticed a focus on "concerns over ascetics, not aesthetics" (p.63) in portrayals of the fatness or thinness of men? How might our modern imaginings of a lean, lanky academic/intellectual character play into this? (I hope this idea is tracked more throughout the book, it's a super interesting one!)

  • 2. If you've ever wandered through a museum from art of this time period, or looked at it in books, have you ever been presented with this kind of lens? What are the general ways you've been taught to look at artworks that are missing a lens of racial analysis?

  • 3. Can you sum up the arguments being made in chapters one and two in a few sentences?

  • 4. How does it feel to view cultural attitudes towards fatness as having changed over time, instead of from within the current cultural moment which seeks to impose a universality on our fatphobia?

  • Take a further look into the types of Renaissance paintings that Dr. Strings analyzes in Chapter 1. Then, take out a paper and draw yourself. Think about what you focus on, and why. 

  • Journal about how art and storytelling play a role in perpetuating anti-Black racism in the Chapter 2. How has this changed from then till now? How has it remained the same? In what ways are we complicit?

Resources on “Womxn” vs “Women”: this twitter thread / this video on the origin of the phrase “women of color”  / the body is not an apology article

The Meat of It: Sophie Williams / Millennial Black / Insta post that started it all / Slay in Your Lane / All the Women Are White, All the Blacks Are Men, But Some of Us Are Brave / Candice Brathwaite / Bizarre & Racist History of the bmiHow we fail black patients’ pain / Nonwhite patients get less pain relief in US emergency rooms / post: how black people in the UK are disproportionately being affected by COVID / BAME Britains twice as likely to die from COVID / Govt Censorship on BAME report / how to cope if you're a black woman and feeling exhausted / the trevor project / pre-order millennial black 
Sophie’s picks: anti-racist ally / keeping up the momentum / for black women who are exhausted 

Call to Action: Read “What, to Black Lives, is the 4th of July?” by Antwan Herron.

Read, reflect, and share this piece over this weekend — the 4th. Remember that when we call July 4th “Independence Day,” who that Independence included. 

“This Fourth of July is yours, not mine. You may rejoice, I must mourn. To drag a man in fetters into the grand illuminated temple of liberty, and call upon him to join you in joyous anthems [is] inhuman mockery and sacrilegious irony.” - Frederick Douglass 


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Editing and Sound Design by Laila Oweda.

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4.11 Mailbag with Jazzmyne Jay!

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This week is a mailbag episode with Jazzmyne Jay! We’re answering your questions about buying plus size clothes, having confidence during sex, and starting a career in social media.

 

Today’s episode is sponsored by:

 

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In this episode:

 

We’re Obsessed: Syd B / Meghan The Stallion / Hood Rat Shit music vid / Lolo Zouaï 

 

Tip Jar: mermaidqueenjude

 

Call for Submissions: Calling our College Fatmily—What is Your college doing that is GOOD FOR THE FATS? Send DAT VOICE to fyi@shesallfatpod.com.

 

The Meat of It: Jazzmyne / Personal Style Episode / The Bold Type / Sophie’s lipstick / Sophie’s eye palettes@ASOS_Jazzmyne / Asos / Madewell / Pretty Little Thing / Lindsey #sorrylindsey / Good on You / Fat Traitor / Lindy West on TAL / Andre Leon Talley / Allyson Stoner GAY music video

 

Fat Posi/Sex Posi Resources: @thefatsextherapist / @jaclynfable / The Body Kindness Project / Sins Invalid / Sex at Every Size / @ashleighthelion / Spooky Fat Babe / @joannathagiah