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Time Capsule Ep #5: Fat Chatz with Jazzmyne Jay

CONTENT NOTE: This episode contains discussions about sex and porn

This time capsule release was recorded with Jazzmyne Jay back in February 2020! It’s a gem of a multi-segmented episode about doja cat, fat gay sex, and phat with a PH.

In this ep:

Our guest: Jazzmyne Jay / Mailbag ep w/ Jazzmyne / Personal Style Ep / Dressing Up Ep

Obsessions: Doja Cat / Say So / Jughead Jones / TikTok algorithm / Time piece on Black TikTok / Doja Cat Vogue makeup tutorial / Plus Size CottageCore Fashion

Check out the collective Outta the Gloss and read their open letter to Glossier.

The Meat of It: our fat sex ep / relationship mailbag with Victor / Dana Hamilton / crash pad / Bellesa / The persistence of fat-shaming in queer TV / Buzzfeed Quiz / Face Off


Call In and leave us a voicemail for our next Call In Episode! You can ask questions, tell us your quarantine obsessions, or ask Jazzmyne a sex question! Call us at 213-375-5023.

If you join our Patreon at Team Paisley Mumu, you’ll get access to our Patrons-Only Facebook group where we’ve been doing weekly livestreams, plus bonus minisodes every Friday.


Our advertisements are done in partnership with Acast. If you’d like to sponsor our show, you can email biz@shesallfatpod.com or go to Acast.com and tell them we sent you! 

If you’d like to support the work we do, you can join our Patreon by visiting patreon.com/shesallfatpod. When you pledge to be a supporter, you’ll get all sorts of goodies like our Patreon-only Facebook Group and extra content.

If you are interested in the perks available to our Patrons but you are not able to afford the monthly contribution, apply for our Patreon Scholarship! If you are a member of the Fatmily interested in becoming a sponsor, contact us here.

Questions/Comments/Concerns? Email fyi@shesallfatpod.com or call us at (213)-375-5023 to leave a voicemail. 

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Time Capsule Ep #3: Fat Love Island

This episode is a release from our pre-COVID time capsule. Sophie recorded this interview back in February (#vday) 2020 with boyfriend of the pod, Victor! Our fave couple answers YOUR mailbag questions about mismatched sex drives, chubby chasers, and projecting your anxieties onto your partner.

The Meat of It:

Tomato Festival / Santa Clarita Diet / Kristin Chirico "My Boyfriend Loves Fat Women" / I'm Jared I'm 19 Vine / Come As You Are / Perfectly Normal / Our Resources Page 

Other resources:

our Fat Dating episode / our  “Getting Off” episode w/ Sonalee Rashatwar / Dana Hamilton

 

 

Call In and leave us a voicemail for our next Call In Episode! You can ask questions, tell us your quarantine obsessions, or shoutout your fave chubby chaser. Call us at 213-375-5023.

If you join our Patreon at Team Paisley Mumu, you’ll get access to our Patrons-Only Facebook group where we’ve been doing weekly livestreams, plus bonus minisodes every Friday.


Our advertisements are done in partnership with Acast. If you’d like to sponsor our show, you can email biz@shesallfatpod.com or go to Acast.com and tell them we sent you! 

If you’d like to support the work we do, you can join our Patreon by visiting patreon.com/shesallfatpod. When you pledge to be a supporter, you’ll get all sorts of goodies like our Patreon-only Facebook Group and extra content.

If you are interested in the perks available to our Patrons but you are not able to afford the monthly contribution, apply for our Patreon Scholarship! If you are a member of the Fatmily interested in becoming a sponsor, contact us here.

Questions/Comments/Concerns? Email fyi@shesallfatpod.com or call us at (213)-375-5023 to leave a voicemail. 

Follow us! Twitter / Instagram / Get updates!

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5.3 Getting Off

Click here for a transcript of this episode.

In this episode, we’re talking about sex and intimacy in quarantine with Sonalee Rashatwar AKA the Fat Sex Therapist!

Bookclub: Fearing the Black Body / Black Owned Bookstores 

The Meat of It: Sonalee Rashatwar / @thefatsextherapist / Radical Therapy Center / Sonalee article on Bitch / Clementine Morrigan / What is Shadow Work and where to start / Sexual Shadow Integration Work / Gaby Herstik / Grounding Techniques for Self-Soothing / Self-Hold exercise / Big Big Love / Dana Hamilton / Teen Vogue — Health benefits of masturbation / Crash Pad / kink.com / b-vibe  

Resources on Israel, Palestine, and Zionism:  USCPR / The Palestinian Youth Movement / Jewish Voice for Peace / BDS / Amnesty International / Within Our Lifetime / The Guardian / Palestinian’s Podcast / The Queer Arabs Podcast

CALL TO ACTION: Support Black Sex Workers

From The Black Sex Worker Collective, “Demand economic justice for all our workers and artists who are being left out of financial support conversations by local government. You can do that by helping The Black Sex Worker Collective raise money and awareness to directly support impacted communities, which is all too often Black and POC members of society.” 

Read more about the bswc’s work here / Buy Tickets to “Who’s Allowed to Make Money - Workers in Solidarity.” / Donate to the event's GoFundMe / Follow, share, and uplift the bswc on social media! 


Our advertisements are done in partnership with Acast. If you’d like to sponsor our show, you can email biz@shesallfatpod.com or go to Acast.com and tell them we sent you! 

Editing and Sound Design by Laila Oweda.

If you’d like to support the work we do, you can join our Patreon by visiting patreon.com/shesallfatpod. When you pledge to be a supporter, you’ll get all sorts of goodies like our Patreon-only Facebook Group and extra content.

If you are interested in the perks available to our Patrons but you are not able to afford the monthly contribution, apply for our Patreon Scholarship! If you are a member of the Fatmily interested in becoming a sponsor, contact us here.

Questions/Comments/Concerns? Email fyi@shesallfatpod.com or call us at (213)-375-5023 to leave a voicemail. 

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4.15 Fattie EDU

Find a full transcript of the episode here!

This week our Jr. Producer Lynn takes the reins as we chat about finals, anti-fat bias in academia, and all things uni!

Today’s episode is sponsored by:

 

Rosmarino Candles: Use our candle code SAF at checkout to save 20% off your first full size purchase and/or 50% off your first month of a subscription. 

 

The Body Reconnect Tour: Click here for Tour information / Click here for Tickets (all cities) / Click herefor free facebook group for people interested in attending the tour in any city!

 

Birchbox: Use code SAF for $5 off your own monthly box of You-Time

 

Get your hands on our very first merch collab! Use code SAF for 10% off your purchase of all Dazey brand items. We have sizing descriptions and more about the shirt on our instagram

 

We are an independent production. If you’d like to support the work we do, you can join our Patreon by visiting patreon.com/shesallfatpod. When you pledge to be a supporter, you’ll get all sorts of goodies like our Patreon-only Facebook Group and extra content.

 

If you are interested in the perks available to our Patrons but you are not able to afford the monthly contribution, apply for our Patreon Scholarship! If you are a member of the Fatmily interested in becoming a sponsor, contact us here.

 

Need advice? Email/send voice memo to fyi@shesallfatpod.com.

 

Follow us! Twitter / Instagram / Get updates!

 

You can find us on: Apple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PlayStitcherPocket CastPlayerFM, and CastBox.

 

Need something else? Check out our site: shesallfatpod.com

 

In This Episode: 

 

We’re Obsessed: Sea Urchin Sand Dollar Video / @callyrgf / Virginia Frances Sterrett / Wiki Page / Old French Fairytales / Tanglewood Tales / This lotion / Lynn Loves Soccer Now / @mrapinoe / Just Break Up Podcast / Tuca & Bertie / King Princess 

 

Tip Jar: Listen to Nancy / Give us suggestions for next season!! 

 

The Meat of It: Lynn / Carleton College / Carleton Student Demographic Info / Carls Talk Back / Carls Talk Back on Fb / Carleton Professor Violated Sexual Misconduct Policy and Still Works at Carleton and the College Is Protecting Him / Hookup Culture / Defeat of Jesse James Days / Queer Eye trailer / CYG Real Queer America / Aren Aizura Mobile Subjects / 10 Things I Hate about You / New Life Thrift / Maria @bubulubufanclub / 2000s Fat Studies courses / Oberlin’s Critical Fat Studies / Oberlin Student Demographic Info / Fabulous and Big / The Body Positive leadership program / Lizzo Tweet 

 

Maria’s Follow Recs: @louisvuittoncrocs / @fatkyliejenner / @heyparkerday  

4.11 Mailbag with Jazzmyne Jay!

Click here for a transcript of this episode!

This week is a mailbag episode with Jazzmyne Jay! We’re answering your questions about buying plus size clothes, having confidence during sex, and starting a career in social media.

 

Today’s episode is sponsored by:

 

Banila Co! Banila has created the HOLY GIRL of makeup removers, Clean It Zero, which is ALSO A CLEANSER. Save 10% off with promo code SAF10 and right now, they have free shipping, so hop on it!

 

ThirdLove! ThirdLove knows there’s a perfect bra for everyone, so right now they are offering  listeners 15% off your first order! Go to thirdlove.com/saf now to find your perfect-fitting bra.

 

Undersummers! Their soft and comfy Shortlette slip shorts will quickly become your go-to thigh protecting panty for under skirts and dresses year round. To buy your own set of Undersummers, use code SAF for $10 off your purchase at undersummers.com.

 

Get your hands on our very first merch collab! Use code SAF for 10% off your purchase of all Dazey brand items. We have sizing descriptions and more about the shirt on our instagram.

 

We are an independent production. If you’d like to support the work we do, you can join our Patreon by visiting patreon.com/shesallfatpod. When you pledge to be a supporter, you’ll get all sorts of goodies like our Patreon-only Facebook Group and extra content.

 

If you are interested in the perks available to our Patrons but you are not able to afford the monthly contribution, apply for our Patreon Scholarship! If you are a member of the Fatmily interested in becoming a sponsor, contact us here.

 

Need advice? Email/send voice memo to fyi@shesallfatpod.com.

 

Follow us! Twitter / Instagram / Get updates!

 

You can find us on: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Play, Stitcher, Pocket Cast, PlayerFM, and CastBox.

 

Need something else? Check out our site: shesallfatpod.com

 

In this episode:

 

We’re Obsessed: Syd B / Meghan The Stallion / Hood Rat Shit music vid / Lolo Zouaï 

 

Tip Jar: mermaidqueenjude

 

Call for Submissions: Calling our College Fatmily—What is Your college doing that is GOOD FOR THE FATS? Send DAT VOICE to fyi@shesallfatpod.com.

 

The Meat of It: Jazzmyne / Personal Style Episode / The Bold Type / Sophie’s lipstick / Sophie’s eye palettes@ASOS_Jazzmyne / Asos / Madewell / Pretty Little Thing / Lindsey #sorrylindsey / Good on You / Fat Traitor / Lindy West on TAL / Andre Leon Talley / Allyson Stoner GAY music video

 

Fat Posi/Sex Posi Resources: @thefatsextherapist / @jaclynfable / The Body Kindness Project / Sins Invalid / Sex at Every Size / @ashleighthelion / Spooky Fat Babe / @joannathagiah