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7.15 Crushing Colonialism w/ Jen Deerinwater

In this episode, we’re joined by Jen Deerinwater; activist, journalist, citizen of the Cherokee nation of Oklahoma, to talk about Crushing Colonialism.

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Mentioned in this episode: 

Jen Deerinwater / Crushing Colonialism / Fat antagonism / Denarii Grace / More on clean water in West Virginia / Fearing the Black Body ep / All My Relations / Indigenous Spoonies Revolt / Virtual Decolonized Beats / Sacred and Subversive / Jera Brown / Call for submissions / Mariner East 2 Pipeline / This Land podcast / NDN Collective Landback / learn more about “commodity boxes” / I’m Native and Disabled. The US Government Is Sacrificing My People / No One Knows How Many Indigenous Women Are Missing or Murdered  

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7.9 Pot & Plants with Jess Henderson

We’re talking weed, plants, and pleasure with comedian Jessica Henderson!

*In this episode, Sophie and Jess talk about their own relationships with weed - it is not to be taken as medical advice. Make sure you do your research on what works for you and your own body!*

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Mentioned in this Episode:

Read up before you light up: Weed Timeline / Marijuana Arrests NYT / Essence Article / Supernova Women / How Rich People Took Over the CBD industry / Legalization & War on Drugs Victims 

DONATE: Hood Incubator / Cannabis Cultural Association / Drug Policy Action / The Innocence Project / Lawyers' Committee for Civil Rights / The Southern Coalition for Social Justice

The Meat of It: : Jess Henderson @embrace_mess  / Sonya Renee Taylor’s workbook / Nugg Club / Jess on Shrill / Shrill fashion / Sam Irby / Meaty / Wow, No Thank You / Sam Irby & Lindy West conversation / Falcanna / Little profile on Jess / Jazmine Sullivan Tiny Desk / Tank and the Bangas Tiny Desk


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7.8 Still Fat, Still Queer #justfatthings Fat & Queer Part 2

In this episode, it’s part two of #justfatthings: Fat & Queer! That means more listener voice memos, some friends of the pod, and some gay ass tunes.

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Mentioned in this episode: 

#justfatthings Fat & Queer Part 1 / Eliza Khinsoe / Eating In episode / Sydney Sky / Dreamgirls episode / Ma Rainey / Skating Fat episode with Shove / Fat & Queer / Get Fat & Queer the book HERE! / Bruce Owens Grimm / TJ Ferentini / These 6 Questions Will Separate The Gay Millennials From The Gay Gen Z'ers

Music used in this episode: 

India Arie / Kimya Dawson / Heather Mae / Brittany Howard / Ma Rainey 


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7.7 #justfatthings: Fat & Queer

In this episode, we’re bringing back #justfatthings to cover all things FAT & QUEER!

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Mentioned in this episode: 

The Pocket Coven / Queer Bodies with Nancy / Taylor Swift London Boy / ep with Nicolette Mason / Ring of Keys / Cam Modern Family clip / Damien Mean Girls clip / Daniel Franzese (Damien actor) / Mo Extraordinary Playlist clip / Fran Shrill clip 

Music used: Love in Real Life by Beth Ditto 


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Patreon Release: Fattiest Season

The Fatmily can have a little patreon-exclusive minisode, as a treat! We’re giving everyone a sneak preview of this Patreon Fattie Film School Minisode all about the new Hulu movie Happiest Season! 

**PATREON DRIVE**

Want a sticker sheet of fat babez and rad bopo phraze? Join our Patreon at Team Paisley Mumu (or above) by TODAY, Dec 31 (2020), and we’ll send you the cute cute stickers from our Stylish Sista collab!  

Our list of 30 small businesses run by talented fatties. 

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Mentioned in this ep:

Happiest Season / Dan Levy clip / Queer Holiday RomComs video / The 200 Best Lesbian, Queer & Bisexual Movies Of All Time / Drew Gregory / Phoebe Bridgers - Motion Sickness video / Michelle Buteau / Queen Latifah in Chicago / Set It Off / Can You Ever Forgive Me 

Queer movies Lynn wanted to highlight because they have body diversity: The Daughters of Fire / The Watermelon Woman / Multiple Maniacs / Suicide Kale / Cloudburst 


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Time Capsule Ep #5: Fat Chatz with Jazzmyne Jay

CONTENT NOTE: This episode contains discussions about sex and porn

This time capsule release was recorded with Jazzmyne Jay back in February 2020! It’s a gem of a multi-segmented episode about doja cat, fat gay sex, and phat with a PH.

In this ep:

Our guest: Jazzmyne Jay / Mailbag ep w/ Jazzmyne / Personal Style Ep / Dressing Up Ep

Obsessions: Doja Cat / Say So / Jughead Jones / TikTok algorithm / Time piece on Black TikTok / Doja Cat Vogue makeup tutorial / Plus Size CottageCore Fashion

Check out the collective Outta the Gloss and read their open letter to Glossier.

The Meat of It: our fat sex ep / relationship mailbag with Victor / Dana Hamilton / crash pad / Bellesa / The persistence of fat-shaming in queer TV / Buzzfeed Quiz / Face Off


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Time Capsule Ep #1: A Little Fat Music

Today’s episode is a release from our pre-COVID time capsule. Sophie recorded this interview back in February 2020 with Ellen Kempner of the band Palehound! They talk about Palehound’s latest album, body neutrality, and being a Big Girl in Rock. 

The Meat of It:

Palehound / Black Friday (album) / “Worthy” Music Video / body neutrality / BoPo Politics with Melissa Gibson / @ashleighchubbybunny / The Fat Friend Ep / Tamara Malas / pic of Ellen we talk about / junior high LA / junior high on patreon / Adult Mom / Sheer Mag / Jay Som 

Our guest: Ellen Kempner / Insta / Twitter / Spotify / Fader Interview / Tidal Interview on Lizzo, "health," and tattoos

Music clips: Killer / Worthy / The City / Bullshit / Autumn Sweater / Stick N Poke / Black Friday  

SAF x Palehound Playlist! 

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5.9 Skating Fat with Fat_Girl_Has_Moxi

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**Content Note: Brief discussion of an abusive relationship**

In this episode, we’re talking about fat babez who roller skate with the patron saint of fat roller skating, Courtney SHOVE. 

Patreon Drive!

Join Team Paisley Mumu in the next month to be part of our BABYSITTERS CLUB. That means weekly lives with Sophie giggling at a chapter, special shoutout next episode, group crafts, and maybe even more :) Make sure to tune in on Sunday, August 16th to read some Babysitters club with Sophie on Instagram live. 

Bookclub:

Fearing the Black Body / Black Owned Bookstores / bookclub webpage

  • From Lynn:

  • From Yeli 

    • Think about the ways that vegetarianism in this chapter was used to uphold fatphobic and white supremacist ideas. What are some ways that these ideas linger? What can we do to make sure we are responsibly engaging with (and talking about) it? 

  • From Laila

    • The modern phenomenon of vegetarianism has created an environment around the world that where some people feel it is okay to judge, morally punish, and cast guilt on the foodways of non-vegetarians, with an intolerance and ignorance that qualifies as racism- especially towards Black and indigenous peoples. We must remember large numbers of people still solely depend on what their surroundings offer, surviving as hunter-gatherers. In some areas where little or nothing grows people are often totally dependent on animals, fish, and plants both for food (and for making clothes and tools). 

The Meat of It: 

Courtney Shove @fat_girl_has_moxi / DCOM Brink / Moxi Rollerskates / Estrojen / Moxi Lolly Boot / Sure Grip / Impala / Nicole Byer / Moxi Pads Thick Set / Fat skate reel / Chub Club / Rise and Skate / Rise & Skate Long Beach / United Skates / @bipocwhoskate / #fatskatelove / @caitinskates / @burdbrain_ / Fat Girl Has Moxi Etsy / Buy Shove a cup of coffee / Join Shove’s Patreon 

Use code SHOVE for 5% off anything on Moxiskates.com 

For more, more, more: The whitewashing of roller skating's tiktok revival / Roller Bounce (movie with lil bow wow) / @fatfemmefatale.shop / @abominatrix 

CALL TO ACTION: check out Activation Residency

This Call to Action comes to us from *Hannah*!  They say: @activationresidency is an amazing black queer run expanded arts organization that is fundraising right now for their new initiative Respite as Resistance happening this fall where BIPOC front line activists can have a retreat style healing session alongside other activists and BIPOC healers and leaders (and they all will get paid too!!). JOIN/DONATE!

If you have suggestions for calls to action or orgs to check out, you can always email or DM us.


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Editing and Sound Design by Laila Oweda.

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